The Untold Story

Then will no woe sustain if we gab our untold stories...

                    Yesterday, one of my family members was chatting with me on WhatsApp. She asked me a simple question, “how are you?”. Though I was upset from inside, I replied that I am fine. Because with age we learn that when anybody asks you, “how are you?”, we must tell “I am fine.” This is a conversation breaker. Everyone wants a positive feeling from others and by accepting this we might forget our real feelings. And then there is an untold story, which everyone has piled up inside but do not have the courage to share with others. 

 

 When I used to come home from school, I used to share everything “good” with my parents. The good marks, that the teacher appreciates my work, that I achieved a price and so on.

But I never told them, if I hurt somebody or I got lower grades. We tend to tell the stories in which we are hero, but never share the stories in which we are the loser. After telling our heroic stories, the story which we leave behind is still in our mind. Once a long time is passed, we cannot share it or we don’t like to share it and this leads to depression. We lose the

bigger fight when we decide to keep away from lost matches. It is good to share all the things with our closed ones or we should have someone to share our feelings. If there will be no interaction between our closer ones, no one to share the depths of despair with, no one to care for, there will be less reason to live happily. 

When we get to know that someone is suffering from any physical illness, we begin to think about his/her future or try giving inspirations and motivations to that person. But when we hear about the person who is depressed, we just ignore them or suggest taking the advice of psychologists and think that we did well for the patient. But the depressed person doesn’t need any advice, they only need to interact with someone. They just need to unlock their untold stories. If we take this seriously, there will be an amendment in the custom of saying “I am fine” in any condition and we could tell the stories of our lost matches. Sometimes it is okay to be mediocre, it is okay to be a loser, it is okay to be an unsuccessful person but it's important that one should be a real person.

#ToBeRealIsBetterThanToBeFlaselyGood.